The Truth About How I feel

Writing about this stems from a conversation I recently had on Valentine’s Day. It is something I don’t think I was consciously aware of, but it’s definitely something I feel the need to talk about.

We were having pizza and wine when my friends began to talk about their relationships, and I realized how this area of my life is such a big insecurity of mine. Their stories, and everyone else’s stories sometimes make me feel pressured to want to have something similar to theirs’. I realized how hard it was for me to say the truth about the way things have gone for me, and in that moment, I became aware of how unhealthy it was for me to feel this way.

Truth is, I am not in a relationship, I have never been in an official long-term relationship, nor have I ever been in love. I’ve dated, but I have never felt ready to take that next step, or maybe I just haven’t found the right person to do so with. I know I have spoken about love and relationships before, but it was not until this Valentine’s Day conversation, that I realized how insecure this really made me feel.

To be honest, I don’t think that there is anything wrong with me not having been in love before, but it’s just crazy the way other people’s journey can make us feel this way. I wanted to share this specific insecurity with you to remind you that we all have insecurities, and it is perfectly normal to. We are humans, and nobody is perfect. Whether your insecurity is physical, or more on a personal level, know that you are not alone. We are all dealing with something internally, and just because we do not showcase it on social media, it doesn’t mean it’s not there.

I wish I had the answer as to how to deal with these insecurities, but I am still learning, and dealing with them myself. What I could tell you, is that becoming aware of them is the first step. It’s important to make sure you’re intentionally working on bettering these areas that cause insecurities, but don’t be so hard on yourself. We all go through them, and what ultimately matters at the end of the day, is that you are always working hard to be the version of YOU!

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Escribir sobre esto nació de una conversación que tuve el día de San Valentín. Es algo de lo cual no estaba necesariamente consciente, pero definitivamente es algo sobre lo cual siento la necesidad de hablar.

Estaba comiendo pizza y tomando vino con unas amigas cuando comenzaron a hablar sobre sus relaciones, y ahí es cuando me di cuenta que esta área de mi vida me causa demasiadas inseguridades. Sus historias, y las de los demás de cierta manera me hacen sentir presionada a querer tener algo similar. Me di cuenta de lo difícil que es para mí hablar como ha sido esta área de mi vida, y en ese momento, me di cuenta de lo mal que estoy en sentirme de esta manera.

La verdad es que no estoy en una relación, nunca he estado en una oficialmente a largo plazo, ni jamás he estado enamorada. Claro que he salido con chicos, pero nunca me sentí lista para tomar ese próximo paso, o quizá no he encontrado a la persona indicada. Yo sé que en el pasado ya he hablado sobre este tema del amor y de relaciones, pero no fue hasta esta conversación que tuvimos el día de san Valentín, que me di cuenta de lo insegura que en realidad me hace sentir este tema.

Para ser honesta, no creo que tenga nada de malo el nunca haber estado enamorada, pero si es loco darme cuenta que las historias de los demás me pueden hacer sentir de esta manera. Yo quería compartir esta especifica inseguridad con ustedes para recordarles que todos tenemos inseguridades y eso es perfectamente normal. Somos seres humanos y nadie somos perfectos. SI tu inseguridad es física o a un nivel más íntimo y personal, quiero que sepas que no estás solo. Todos estamos lidiando con algo internamente, y solo porque no lo mostramos en nuestras redes sociales, no quiere decir que no exista.

Quisiera tener la respuesta de cómo manejar estas inseguridades, pero yo todavía estoy aprendiendo. Lo que si te puedo decir es que dándote cuenta de esas inseguridades es el primer paso. Es importante que estés trabajando en mejorar estas áreas que traen inseguridades a tu vida, pero no seas muy duro contigo mismo. Todos pasamos por eso, y lo que realmente importa, es que siempre estés trabajando en ser la mejor versión de ti mismo.

514 thoughts on “The Truth About How I feel

  1. Thank you for sharing. I would’ve never thought that you would be feeling or experiencing something like this. In my experience I believe that the more special you feel, the harder it is to fall in love. Expectations are higher and love is taken more seriously, with deep meaning.

  2. I hundred percent agree with you about it not being weird and able to deal with the fact that you haven’t been in love before. I on the other hand have felt that level of love, I was married but it didn’t work out now I’m divorced. It’s not all cracked up to be how people make it to be. I do believe that it takes time and when the right person comes along you know it but there are people that want it so bad they accept anything and I think I was once that person. I’m very choosy on who I deal with I try to date but don’t feel any connection. Maybe I’m going through something or maybe I just haven’t found the one.

    Corey

    1. Thank you so much for sharing your story! I just feel it’s God’s timing, and most importantly having an open heart to the right person 🙂

  3. It takes a lot to speak about insecurities. Especially when society is so judgemental. It speaks volumes that you can share with all your followers and still have a positive outlook at the end of the day. I am always looking forward to what your going to blog about next. When i read We All Have The Same 24 Hours, i knew that i could realate to your blogs. I have always wanted to start my own blogs & you & your work have inspired me to one day start my own. Thank you so much for sharing!!! 🙌💯

    1. Hey Ralphie!! Trust me it’s not easy to open up about this, but I knew it was important to. At the end of the day we all have insecurities, and I just want ti show people that they’re not alone. Receiving messages like this one make everything so worth, you have no idea how inspires I feel!! START YOUR BLOG, YOU GOT THIS 🙂

  4. It’s interesting because it doesn’t seem like you would have any insecurities. You seem like you have your life in order and you have everything going for you. A relationship is not something that you want right now, because of your career. However, when you’re ready, you’ll be in a good relationship. People, nowadays, want to make sure they secure their careers and then worry about a relationship later….and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you don’t pass up on that special someone because you feel that they will hinder your career in some way. A relationship will happen, unexpectedly, at times. Just let it happen and don’t fight it. I’m sure when you decide to have one or when you find a special someone, you’ll have a long lasting relationship. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It’s eye opening.

    1. That’s exactly why I felt it was so important for me to share this, my life isn’t perfect. Don’t get me wrong, SOOOOO many things are great, but this particular one has been a little tough. What is key to not get impatient, and simply have an open heart 🙂

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